My favourite quality in my spouse....

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if you have read some of my other blog entries you will know that l find it hard to pick favourite anythings.  I couldnt pick a favourite book, movie, food so l could never pick a favourite quality in my spouse as there are many and no one of them defines him.

Thoughtfulness.
His thoughtfulness amazes me. Not  that l am amazed he is thoughful but because of the scope of it and his ability to still surprise me after all these years.
He would literally do anything for anybody, but most of his ideas to help friends and neighbours just pop in to his head and he is the kind of guy who offers without being asked.

Generosity 
He is incredibly generous. we are far from rich but have a little rainy day fund, he has offered this to many a friend in trouble without missing a beat on many an occassion

Love
He is a guy who went we went out first wasnt a very affectionate or tactile guy or an "i love you " skinda guy but over the years he has been transformed and this has accelereated since we had our two kids. He tells them everyday and hugs and kisses them and its amazing to see.