10 things l hope l would be remembered for

A good daughter, sister, cousin, niece. I hope l will be a person who was considered a good family member. interested in family in its wider sense, immediate family, and extended family.

A good friend-I often think that it is one of the highest accolades. That somebody would think you were a really GOOD FRIEND.

A good colleague, somebody who was supportive, interested in colleagues and how they were doing, helpful and good fun and a positive influence in work environment.

A kind and caring person.

A funny person. up for a laugh, love to laugh, am getting better at laughing at myself with each year.

Thoughtful, l do think of others, remember birthdays, sad days, significant days/events for people and check in with them to let them know l care.

l would like to think l was good at my job and that what l did made a difference to people. I would like to hope that the people I was working with and trying to help knew that l was really trying, even if l didnt always help get them to the outcome they wanted, as long as they knew l was trying my best to get them there i would be happy with that.

A positive person and a good listener. Somebody who people felt they could turn to, they could share with, they could be listened too and they would get advice from

A good wife, a supportive wife, a loving wife, a fun wife.  THis was my aim, this was my intention..to love well and with all my heart, in good times and in bad xx

A GOOD MOTHER- to be good at this job is THE MOST IMPORTANT
 JOB IN THE WORLD.  I make mistakes, l regret the way l handle some situations, but this is the job that is so vital to me. I dont want to be the best mom in the world because l dont think that exists. my own mom is fantastic but as a mom now l realise that MOMS/MUMS/MAMMYS are all just women like me trying to do their best for their kids.
And l am trying every day to give my kids a happy home life, a healthy life, exercise, edcuation, good food, shelter, comfort, support, love, nurturing and a safe haven in this world. It is done with an abundance of love but maybe not always with an abundance of patience....
I would like that as my two beautiful children grow up they will look back and say they had a happy childhood, what a compliment that would be xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx